Oversized Sweater Weather

OOTD: Taupe Oversized Sweater – H&M | Velvet Skirt – Zara Kids | Boots – A.N.A. | Crossbody Nude Purse – Coach

The weather has been grey and rainy, but with this oversized sweater, I’m prepared to stay cozy! I think this looks a little schoolgirl again… maybe I have an obsession? This H&M sweater was actually a last deal steal, but here is a similar version here. Oversized clothing is great because you can layer it with other pieces, but it’s also a win for me because I’m still not at my fit version of myself… so it can hide a lot! Do I have a pot belly under this sweater? Maybe. Am I wearing a shirt underneath it? Who knows.

It’s hard to stay on top of the “winter” trends here in Dallas because the weather is constantly switching between spring and winter lately. Yesterday I walked out of my house in a full on winter outfit complete with boots to find it was 70 degrees outside. Today I walked out in flats and it was back into winter mode and I tearfully regretted my outfit decisions all day at the office while wrapped up in a blanket. 

Either way, I’m going to keep wearing the sweaters until it’s too hot, because they really help me stay comfortable!


Dallasite: MiniLux Highland Park Yelp Elite Event

Yelp Dallas has started their 2017 Elite events! There was actually an event before this, but I couldn’t attend due to a clash in schedules. This particular event was at Minluxe in Highland Park, Dallas, TX.

Miniluxe is a high-end nail and waxing salon, first starting in Boston, MA. In recent years they have expanded and there are five locations in the Dallas area so far. 

Miniluxe sets themselves apart from the usual market by being extremely sterile. Everything used on customers are sanitized using advanced techniques in their Clean Lab. They are also very customer service oriented and go out of their way to make each guest feel at home. 

At the Yelp Elite Event, they were offering color refreshes on nails and toes, facial waxes, and massages. Since I have on Nexgen nails, I couldn’t take advantage of their nail services, but I did do my first ever eyebrow wax, and now I’m not sure if I can go on without doing it again (pictures will come in later posts… muahaha). I’m considering having my Nexgen removed and having a Miniluxe manicure. The true test to see if I have cured my dermatophagia. If you’re not familiar with dermatophagia, please check out my article on it published on The Mighty.

Overall, it was a great way to kick off 2017 Yelp Dallas, and I can’t wait to visit the Miniluxe Salon in my area of Dallas.


OOTD: When the City Makes You Rude

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OOTD: Dress & cardigan – Forever 21 | Bag – Zara | Shoes – White Mt. | Watch – Apple

MOTD: Foundation – Urban Decay | Setting Powder – Tony Moly | Blush – Benefit | Brows – Daiso | Lashes – Maybelline | Lips – Chanel




Small town girl, wishing to be a city girl, but doesn’t realize the consequences of living in a city include finding a new side of her that she didn’t know she had. This is the beginning of my bold and rude side that came out when I had lived here for a few months.

Dallas is a stretch of never-ending city. An urban sprawl. And with it comes the bold, the rude, the people who do not care.

As a small town girl, I was promised a friendly state of people, but forgot that I was moving to a city. I take back what I said before about Pennsylvanians being rude – they are rude in their own way, but city folk are definitely more rude!

So here are the top ways that I have become bolder, ruder, and more outspoken here in the city.

1.) Driving

Driving here is not for the weak, the indecisive. You must think and act quick. At first I was so angry that I was getting cut off almost every single day driving, but you get used to it and you start doing it to other people. The lane is randomly turning into a turing lane only? You have to assert yourself into the other lane! The light here is only 3 seconds long and there’s 500 people waiting? You HAVE to speed through! It’s insane learning how to drive here. I feel like I’ve become those NYC/Boston/NJ drivers that I used to despise!

2.) Speaking my mind, even when I previously would have found it not appropriate.

People are going to screw you over here. This is just how it is. In the inner city, people will harass you for money for a train ticket. You have to say no and walk away. People will treat you badly when you need an issue resolved in a store or in a customer service situation. You have to say things you didn’t want to say because sometimes, being polite isn’t going to work here. I used to be the quiet girl who didn’t want to offend anyone, but lately I’ve been surprising myself.

The “wine expert” at Central Market insults me when I ask for a particular type of wine, I automatically am rude to him. Good? No, probably not. Conditioned for this response. Yes, completely. One good thing coming out of this is my combined phone skills with now my “boldness” has gotten me what I wanted from customer service with different companies.

3.) Not caring about what people think of me.

I used to care about being polite. When someone cut me in line in a store in PA, which was rare, by the way, then I would just let them. Now because it happens SO OFTEN, I will just walk right in front of them. Because chances are they aren’t going to say anything anyway. I think the constant heat also contributes to the lack of polite people in this city during the summer. Overall, the heat makes me angry, which in turn makes me just stop caring about how people look at me because I’m too annoyed to care.


It’s not Texas that made me “rude,” but the city that did it. City living really does toughen you up, and to some my area of Dallas may not be considered a “city,” but the small town Central PA girl in me thinks that North Dallas is a city because it’s part of the urban sprawl. I think Texans are in general kind and friendly, but the mixture of heat and the constant migration of out of state people really does effect the behavior. You have to be firm and assertive to live in any city, and Dallas is no exception!

Thankfully, I can still look like a gentle and polite girl with floral dresses like this. I try my best to still keep myself well-dressed, and Forever 21 has always been my go-to for affordable and cute outfits. I’m a simple girl, ok?



[Top] H&M

[Pants] Forever21

[Cardigan] Mudd

[Shoes] Jellypop

[Bag] London Fog




The weather was nice enough to bring out the open-toe heels again. I’m glad because when it comes to shoes, I’m really lacking in variety of them. I basically have one pair of each type of shoe, and that’s it. It’s good for minimalism, but not great for showing on a blog, I suppose. 

I really like this simple outfit. It’s comfortable but can be dressy. As for my cray hair, it seems to follow the wind, so excuse my messy hair. 

An exciting thing is finally happening soon: one of my best friends is traveling from the Northeast to Dallas, and she, my husband and I will be driving to Austin, San Antonio and Corpus Christi. I haven’t seen her in a while, so I’m happy that she’ll be coming. Corpus Christi was my ironical moving target, so I’m anxious to see what it’s really like in person. Who knows, maybe I’ll be moving again in a few months? 😉


Zenna Thai and Japanese | Review

On Friday nights, nowadays I just stay in and sulk about not having anything to do. I try to stay in the other nights, but Friday night just seems like I should be out doing something. For an introvert, I do like to put myself in crowds and then hide in the sea of bodies. But every bar or club is expensive and frankly, not worth the experience. Maybe it would be more fun if I were a young 21 year old single girl, but I’m not. And so most Friday nights I spend drinking at home.

But recently we found a great hang out spot here in North Dallas called Zenna. We had been to the location in Plano, Texas, but it was alright. But the location here in Carrollton is awesome! Like all of the Zenna locations, they have an everyday happy hour from 3 PM to 7 PM. The happy hour includes many food items as well as pretty much all of the drinks. I got a glass of wine for $3 and a long island iced tea (a strong one!) for only $3 as well. The quality is good, and they don’t skimp on the alcohol in their mixed drinks.

The happy hour food menu is great because they have a variety of Thai and Japanese appetizer-sized dishes that you can choose. Each one is between $1 to $5.  Based on past experience, I would say to order mostly Thai food because the Thai dishes were significantly better than the Japanese dishes.


Above is the spicy tamarind wings. You get 5 pieces for $4.50.

Their tom kha was delicious. This was actually on the regular menu, but it was also affordable at price of $5.


You must get the chicken satay here. It’s not completely authentic, but it tastes great, so who cares? And it’s only $3!
Zenna For dessert, we ordered the Thai mango and sticky rice. It was a great end to the many things we ordered that night.

The atmosphere was a real deciding factor because they somehow manage to keep it looking upscale with modern decor, while keeping the aura casual with TV’s around showing the sports games. We went on a Sunday night, and everyone seemed to be enjoying themselves while watching the football game.

It’s well worth visiting if you’re in the area, and at least now I have something to do on a Friday night, even if I do come home earlier than a party girl would. Besides, I’m getting too old for keeping up with that life.


Are Dallas Women Immune to the Cold?

I’ve come to a conclusion: the girls here in Dallas are either immune to the cold, or are willing to sacrifice being cold for fashion. Seriously, I know I can’t complain because last time this year I was bundling myself up for the -10 F weather, but it’s still cold. I mean, mid 30’s is cold to me anyway. Or maybe I just never saw many girls in PA running around in shorts, skirts, and flimsy cardigans in place of winter coats in 40 F or below weather. Right now it’s 37 F, and if I were going outside, I’d be wearing a heavy winter coat, the same coat I would wear with extra layers beneath in -10 F weather. Every time I step outside and the wind is blow, I silently question myself on my decision to not move to Corpus Christi. I’m hoping the summer will make up for this cold.

I come out of the Korean Fried Chicken restaurant in Farmer’s Branch last night, which was pretty bad by the way, and I see a group of girls around my age wearing shorts or skirts, light trench jackets, and no hats/scarves/gloves. The wind was damn cold, and I was wearing a winter coat, sweatpants, and a scarf. It’s not fun feeling like a potato, but I’m just always cold.

Then the other day we were at one of the six malls in this area, and there were girls wearing shorts and short-sleeved shorts. It had to be below 40 F degrees outside.

Even my friends here don’t seem to wear winter coats. Why am I so cold?

I like to think that I really did suck it up last year and live with being cold, because I remember still going out in the extremely low temperatures, still walking around outside at work, and not heating my apartment even when it was below 0 F outside. But apparently the women here have tougher skin.

Winter in Texas | OOTD

Winter is usually portrayed as a dark, cold season. One where the darkness is only beautiful when snow flurries are sparkling in the frigid wind and you’re safe inside, curled up by the heater or fire place. It’s hot cocoa, cozy socks, and hearty soup. But then there’s also the ugly side of winter that brings wind so sharp that it cuts through your bare skin, depression from the cold, avoidance of the outside, even when the sun is out, long lonely nights, and scalding hot showers at the end of each day, which ironically become the best part of it.

It’s been an unusually warm winter, even for Dallas, Texas, but the locals say that it only means the ice storm will be worse. You see, here they have one or two major ice storms per winter. And they shut down everything when that day comes. It’s comical, considering I almost killed myself getting to work in the past few years in Pennsylvania. An ice storm would not qualify as a day off in PA. Partially because PA is prepared for bad winters, and partially because it’s just not the worst thing that can happen in winter in PA. I am hoping there will only be one bad ice storm here. I can deal with that.

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With that being said, it’s two days until Christmas and I’m outside in this outfit.

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OOTD: Forever21, Calvin Klein

I know, it’s going to get colder in January and February. But who knew I’d be able to wear summer dresses in winter?

This winter, into the next year, I’m going to be working on having more diverse styles, reviews, and writing here. I can’t wait to explore, style and write for the new year! So much has happened this past year, and I know it will only get better from here. At least, I hope it will.

With winter passing into Texas, I pray it will be quick and painless.


Autumn Fashion: When You Have Only Summer Clothes

Autumn fashion is proving to be difficult for me.

As you might know, I love summer…..

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OOTD: Dress and top – Forever21 | Boots – A.N.A. | Coat – ESPIRIT Outerwear | Bag – Calvin Klein

Thank goodness for the new trend in Autumn fashion this year: restyling summer dresses into fall pieces using a sweater. Basically, all you do is you take one of your nice, flowy, possibly flowery, summer dresses and you layer it under a sweater. It actually works better if you wear an oversized sweater, but as you can see here, I wore a cropped sweater and it worked just as well. It’s cute and helps us summer people find uses for our summer dresses. Pair it with boots and a coat, and you’re good to go!

Autumn fashion is such a pain for me because I don’t like layering with coats and I just don’t like wearing too much clothes and being cold in general, but I’m learning. I’m sure there are more tricks to using summer clothes as winter/autumn clothes – when I figure it out, I’ll be sure to share it! The struggle is real!

Vitruvian Park | December in Dallas

I can’t believe it’s December already. This year was literally insane. I never thought I would be here by now. Especially wouldn’t have expected myself to be wandering this quiet world of lights…. Vitruvian Park in Addison, a suburb of Dallas.

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The pictures don’t even do it justice. You have to be there. I recommend visiting Vitruian Park if you are in the DFW area in the holiday season. The water from the rivers reflect the lights so perfectly like a mirror. Looking down into the water, you forget what is reality and what is illusion. Funny, I do that every day anyway.


There’s a little cafe up in that circle there. It’s so peaceful; there were hardly any people out, despite the fact that it wasn’t that cold (maybe 35 -40 F?), and it wasn’t that late at night either. It was like being lost in a magical forest, for lack of better descriptions. There were a bunch of high society apartment complexes around the park as well. I can’t imagine how breathtaking it must be to look down from your balcony and see this from above.


Vitruvian Park seems like it would be the perfect place to go on a first date, or propose to someone. I can’t wait to see what it looks like in the spring and summer! I don’t know why, but Addison seems to have the best outdoor activities around here. It’s so encouraging that we keep finding ourselves on adventures by accident. I love it.

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And I’ll end this with pictures of my fluffy earmuffs. Just so I don’t get caught fooling anyone, yes, these OOTD pictures were taken at the Shops at Legacy in Plano/Frisco area.


Weekend Diary: Adventures with You

Dear Ice,


I’m glad we found each other. There’s no one I’d rather wander this Earth with…


Through all of the difficult times, you’ve supported me…


You’ve lifted me up to continue to find my dream…


We’ve laughed so hard together…


And we understand each other’s silences….


I’m sorry because I’m not a perfect wife…. But I promise I will try ever day to be there for you….


Think of all the places we still have to discover…


This Earth is so vast….

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I hope I can always make you smile the way you make me smile….


And that we’ll still be able to enjoy food together without getting unhealthy….


Thank you for taking care of me…

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And for staying with me through all of this time…


Here’s to many more adventures.


Your wife.


OOTD: Jacket – Forever21 | Yoga pants – Victoria’s Secret | Purse – Calvin Klein